We are a man/woman long time friends with benefits couple. We have known each other for over 20 years. We each have our own lives but come together to enjoy each other and have some fun. Recently he express the desire to explore bondage and Bi- play as a bottom player. He likes being dominated and controlled by a woman. So I was thinking I could find.. just one semi dominate Bi guy to help me with his desires. He likes mild pain and being forced to take a guy in and also suck his cock. I have used a strap-on and also hot/cold rods while he was tied up and now he wants more. I want to learn how to be more dominant and give him what he desires ...as for me ..I will watch and play along but may or may not take part in the sexual part . My sexual taste are very different from his. I'm straight and not Bi-curious and not into pain. I don't mind watching and maybe giving some oral with him to you. This encounter must be discreet we are High profile professionals in the area and know a lot of people. I am 50 he is 57. We are both safe, clean and discreet looking for same.

My Ideal Person Clean, No drugs, no STDs, very discreet, willing to give and be a top player. You don't have to be gay you can be Bi-curious. Must be willing to not see his face. He will have a mask. I will be the one you have contact with. Someone "normal" ..if there is such a thing.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, he likes mild pain

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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