Hello I'm Dori and I handle most of the correspondence. I'm 45, 5.6, 150 and going down and Jim is 60, 6ft, 195 and going down. We're looking to make some attractive friends that want to be REAL friends and are open to the possibility of it turning into occasional fwb. Our focus is more on the friends aspect. We like the idea of being friends with a more relaxed atmosphere and dialect that can talk/joke about pretty much anything. We want long term friends that we can invite to dinner, for games, movie nights, summer outings, pool, bowling...I love dancing too, but he doesn't. However, he has no problem with me going out dancing with friends. We like to be able to flirt with speech, body and dress... ie hugs, caressing, kissing and such with the understanding that that's all it is. More isn't out of the question, but we'd like to be able to relax and not worry about anyone being let down because they came expecting to get more. More would be more of a surprise. When we do play it's very spur of the moment and we look for ppl that can meet in about a half hours time. Do to (non-contagious) health issues, planning things in advance usually doesn't work for us. We're not against planning but would like it to be understood that our health sometimes gets in the way. Please include the following when you send a message. It will help us to know if we're a match. Are you able to host? What times and days are best for you? How would your friends describe you? What part of Portland do you live in? How long would it take you to get to Beaverton/Tigard area? Are you ok with group activity? What are your sexual likes, dislike and expectations? Is there anything you've been told you're especially good at sexually? New idea's are great, so a little about your fantasies is also preferred. To help me know what kind of things are possible physically with me (Dori), please tell me what size your cock is. Be sure to include at least 1 body pic (pg is fine) and 1 face pic if not on your profile. Hope to hear from you soon. :*

My Ideal Person When/if it comes to sexual play
Ideally this woman/couple would be fine with playing mostly with me when he needs/wants to take a break. He may or may not watch, he will probably be in and out of play time. I'd like for the women to be ok with playing with me and her partner and not be disappointed if he isn't involved for long periods of time. I don't want him to feel pressure to preform. I'd like for all to be happy when he can join in and be understanding when he can't/doesn't. Sometimes it might be that he wants to play mostly with me while I interact with everyone. I know we are a hard fit and decided it would be best to let you know how it may be upfront so no one feels like they've wasted their time getting to know us, then finding out it never could have worked. I would appreciate the same open disclosure allotted to us. Please let us know what you're looking for and any limitations or special needs/allowances you may need/want. Another thing that would be good for us is to be able to get together during the day, like before 6pm. Feel free to ask anything you like. We're very hard to offend and are very open and honest people.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Don't want to release my fantasies to everyone. They
are just for sharing with friends. But I do have a few good
ones and other fun stories.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, wrestling, Biting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, understanding of physical limitations. fun easy going
attitude

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nope

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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